Wrong B's - #B

Dear Daughter,

How're you my child? What's happening in your life? All good?!

Have you reached your rebellious teenage stage where you'll be giving priority over all wrong Bs?! Butts, boobs, body and even wrong boys!

Stop obsessing over them.

You may be in that phase where you'll be wasting gallons of time in front of the mirror checking out your body and wondering why you didn't have that perfect toned butts or an hour glass. Or staring for long at the school/college beauty or some random celebrities and cursing you for not having their high cheekbones or curly thick mane or long slender limbs. Stop. Stop it right now. Stop obsessing over these mundane things.

Change your lifestyle or get some workout done if you're not happy about your body. Or else accept and start loving the whole you. But always remember it's always important to nurture a beautiful mind and character more than anything else. I and the world need a kind and good hearted human being than a gorgeous Goddess.

For one person your hair won't be perfect or your nose, for the other, your skin maybe too dark and another one may find it too fair. But what matters is your opinion about yourself. And no one, absolutely no one is worthy enough to degrade you. Always remember, no matter what the rest of the world says, you're beautiful inside out. Nurture your mind and heart and brains. That's what matters the most. 

So keep in mind,

"We begin to find and become ourselves when we notice how we are already found, already truly, entirely, wildly, messily, marvelously who we were meant to be." 

From,
Me.

I'm Participating in the #AtoZAprilChallenge with the theme .... 

“Letters to Dear Daughter… “

C for ... #AtoZChallenge2016

 "Concentrate on Yourself" 

Hey you,

Every morning you wake up and just start rushing off either to work or to the routines of the day. Have you ever taken a minute to be just being with yourself?

Every day you spend minutes to hours in front of the mirror to make yourself ready for the world. But have you ever actually looked into you, and smiled at yourself?

Every day you spend hours talking to people all around the world. But have you once talked to yourself, even for a second?

Why?

Why do we tend to ignore ourselves all the time? We got enough and more time to do everything the world demands, but not even a minute for ourselves. We give up sleep, food and all other comforts to finish that project but never a second to be with ourselves.

Have you ever congratulated yourself when you have finished that project or got a promotion or did a good job? Have you ever taken a minute to look in the mirror and admire yourself or said "You're beautiful. I love you."

Why?

We tend to look at everything and everyone around us, and most of us compliment and congratulate others for the things they do. We admire other souls for their inside and outside beauty. We wish we were like them. But why we forget ourselves? Why we never give a pat on our own shoulders or give a treat to ourselves when we are happy or just like that?

I believe when we concentrate on ourselves more, we become a more happy and productive person. We all crave for attention and compliments and good words. Then why not give all those to ourselves when we really can do that. You're what you think and say out loud. When you believe you're beautiful, talented, happy and gorgeous and say it out loud often then you're that. We all have a morning/night ritual. Make it a habit to just look into you and be proud of yourself every day. No matter what, fall in love with yourself over and over again, because who can do that better than yourself?

Yours,

Me.

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