September in 123...

 

October!! Aaah…. Already!! Time surely flies soo fast.

September was a normal, good, peaceful and a busy month. The climate was considerably good compared to the scorching last months. This is one thing I hate about Middle East. Summer or winter, it’s the extreme. Where else in God’s own country it’s almost always the air conditioned climate (except for the month of April/May).

Here goes my September …

1.     The Happiest One!!!!

 

 

 

       I became a MAASI again, to an obviously handsome lil dude!!!  Can’t wait to take the bundle of joy in my hands.  (Now I have 4 nieces and 3 nephews out of 4 sisters. WOW!!)  :D :)

2.       Was pretty busy @work but still managed to read some books, chat and scan FB.

3.       Got a new Mobileeeee.  Ok. Actually got it in August, but still its NEW. :D

4.       Started searching for a vehicle for myself. Haven’t decided yet. But my mind is hooked with WRANGLER!

 

Isn't she a Beauty??!!

5.       Deleted an acquaintance from FB n life when he crossed the invisible boundary of speech. (I am proud of myself for that.)

6.       Had an awesome Friday evening at the Beach.

7.       Spend a really good mid-day break with a friend with flowers.

 

 

8.       Shifted to a new house, something like our place back @home.  And finally succeeded having a room whole by myself without my bro intruding to share the bed. (He’s really scared to sleep alone, so now with Dad & Mom! :D)

9.       Explored the MBCO outlet near the work place. And in love with their chocolaty hot chocolate. (Craving for more…)

 

 

10.   Took my first leave from work!

11.   Tallest statue of Jesus Christ in India was built and blessed in my College as a memorial for a dearest one. (Mixed emotions)

 

 

 

12.   Talked to a close friend after a long break.  HAPPY!!!  (I was the sole reason for the break, so can’t complain.)

13.   Friend/Soul sister of mine is super-duper happy romancing with her fiancée. :P

14.   Last but never the least, I am missing my place, people and familiarities but am happy and smiling.

 

P.S. October! Be good to everyone.

God Blez.

 

 

 

Marriageee...???.....Obviously can wait longer!!!

Marriage!!!

This is the villain of my life now. 

Even before I tasted the essence of being independent … everyone wants to send me away to some unknown home to call some unknown parents Mom and Dad.(No offense…!!!... But still…)

I am still an immature “child”, stubborn as a mule for the silliest issues. Even thou my friends and well-wishers agree with these, they stick to the part that 'm mature enough to marry. And when I open my mouth to argue about something with my dad, he says you’re still a child, but a child who’s old enough to marry??!!!

You grow up in a place where you were pampered, spoiled and lived like an adamant princess with a king size bedroom which you guard as if it's your life and never allow a single soul to get inside without your permission and suddenly you are asked to move out to some other place leaving all your people and possessions and that too on a permanent basis where you share a home with people most likely strangers to you at that moment… and more over share a room with a perfect stranger at that point. … (I know, Maybe later on you won’t even able to think about that place without him…. But that’s LATER ON…)

Till yesterday he was perfect doing all his chores and today just cos he’s married he can’t even find his socks!! You who never even took care of yourself are now supposed to “look after” him like a kid. You who never bothered to cook a decent meal for your own taste buds are required to cook for him all the meals and that too in an international standard.  And once you who bragged to yourself that you’ll never change or never alter a bit from who you are, is supposed to tune yourself to that particular HIM and his family. And he who would never even dares to even think about that!!!

And now this guy will decide to whom you talk, how long you will be on phone, who will stay as your friends,  where u go, what time you’ll be back and a guy’s name from you will cause raised eye brows and a female’s name from his mouth should be treated just as a friend or a colleague!!!!

WHAT THE HELL!!!!  Why everyone is eager to push a girl who’s enjoying her single life and freedom with her friends and family into been someone’s doll!!!!

When I feel like falling into the bloody trap I'll let the world know!

Now, Do leave me alone!!!!!!

P.S. Been a person who are surrounded by an awesome Dad, a sweet brother, some lovely bro-in-laws and very genuine male friends.... I know that world is so  full of good guys who treat the women of their life with love and respect. So all the above arguments are just the silly reasons I come up with, whenever the topic of marriage creeps up in family. Pretty lame! I Know! :D

P.S.S. God bless all the couples.

:)

I and Me.

I am thinking – that 'm insane or stupid ... Can't decide which one...

I said – to myself, it’s probably the others, they all look and act insane...

I hear – strange voices in my head questioning me.

I wish – I knew what I’m doing and where I’m heading...

I badly wish - I was Not born in a world where there's a huge lot of inequality between men and women.

I am – surprisingly simple or intensely complicated thoughtful soul.

I want – a job which 'm passionate about and a den where i can be alone but surrounded with books.

I miss – my childhood.

I sing – not that bad.

I wonder – what life has in store for me...

I am not – as optimist as in fairy tales but not too pessimist also.

I write – to clear my head and help me let go of pent up emotions.

I hate – people who don’t respect others, those who don’t value others emotions and ideologies and those who are just plain spineless.

I confuse – myself into believing that all people are inherently good.

I’ve learnt – some people are pure Evil.

I am passionate - about my dear ones...

I believe - it’s all about attitude and how u deal with whatever that happens.

I should – learn to let go more easily and move on with life.

I finish – everything I start.... or try to....

I regret – for some decisions I was not bold enough to take.

 

 

 

P.S.  The idea from a fellow blogger. 

 

 

Keep Smiling.

God Blez.

 

 

India... ... India... ... India... ... !!!!!!!!

Happy Birthday Motherland !!!



This is indeed India!

The land of dreams and romance, of fabulous wealth and fabulous poverty, of splendour and rags, of palaces and hovels, of famine and pestilence, of genii and giants and Aladdin lamps, of tigers and elephants, the cobra and the jungle, the country of hundred nations and a hundred tongues, of a thousand religions and two million gods, cradle of the human race, birthplace of human speech, mother of history, grandmother of legend, great-grandmother of traditions, whose yesterday's bear date with the modering antiquities for the rest of nations-the one sole country under the sun that is endowed with an imperishable interest for alien prince and alien peasant, for lettered and ignorant, wise and fool, rich and poor, bond and free, the one land that all men desire to see, and having seen once, by even a glimpse, would not give that glimpse for the shows of all the rest of the world combined.

-Mark Twain.

P.S. God Blez.

:)



Just being Happy :)

HAPPY.  Coz ‘m alive at the moment. J

HAPPY.  Coz ‘m writing this. J

HAPPY.  Coz I have some crazy bunch of people who are there with all my stupid idiotic acts. J

HAPPY.  Coz can talk hours to my friends. J

HAPPY.  Coz ‘m smiling and I love my smile. J

HAPPY.  Coz I can drive and roam about. J

HAPPY.  Coz I can go shopping. J

HAPPY.  Coz ‘m arrogant, stubborn n childish and still there are people who loves me. J

HAPPY.  Coz I can read and I love books. J

HAPPY.  Coz my childhood friend found her Mr. Perfect. J J SUPER DUPER EXTRA HAPPY.  J J

HAPPY.  Coz I still fight with my lil Bro. J

HAPPY.  Coz they are people who won't forget to wish me morning n night every day. J

HAPPY.  Coz i have a job. J

HAPPY.  Coz i can talk nonstop. J

HAPPY.  Coz ‘m a chocoholic. J

HAPPY.  Coz I have people who luv me too the core. J

HAPPY.  Coz I have memories of dear ones i miss. J

HAPPY.  Coz I have people who miss me when 'm not around. J

HAPPY.  Coz I have a cosy blanket to snuggle at night. J

HAPPY.  Coz I have a mob to chit chat and tip tap 24*7. J

HAPPY.  Coz I have people who would attend my call even at 3 30am and talk for hours. J

HAPPY.  Coz I have place to go after a day's work. J

HAPPY.  Coz I have people to weigh down my anger/sorrows. J  

HAPPY.  Coz I think too much and i love my thoughts. J

HAPPY.  Coz I can read and books are my companion. J

HAPPY.  Coz I know m not alone even when i feel lonely. J

HAPPY.  Coz I love being me and 'm my favorite. J

HAPPY.  Coz 'm a lucky Lady to have all these HAPPINESS. J J J

P.S. I love my life even thou it is truly awful at times.

God Blez.

Keep Smiling.

J

Miss you. Always.

Three years.!!!!

Three years of stillness. Soo much have changed... right from the surroundings to people to life itself. But the vaccum you left in us, remains the same... even at the moment.

The intensity of missing you got deeper as years went, but never any less. No days pass by without wishing you to be here.

Just.......... Tak care.

Love you.
God Blez.




P.S.On your Third year in heaven !!!

Happy Birthday Sis :)

Happy Birthday to you

Happy Birthday to you

Happy Birthday Happy Birthday

Happy Birthday dear Rais

Happiiiiiieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Birthday to youuuuuuuuuuuuu!

Big Grins and Claps.!!!

Many Many happiee returns of yours only special day my dear sissy dear. May you have loads and loads of blessings, laughter, joys, smiles, love, luck, wealth, health and beauty throughout your life.

I never know what to gift you… Even last year gifting something for you on your birthday was more stressful than my exams. Coz nothing seems to convey what you are to me.

You were always been the Best friend in a sis. Even thou in childhood we didn't knew each other much… after that we seemed to be around for each, always. I wanna explicitly tell you that I love you and miss you for who you are. Miss all your cheerful being, that silly fights, gossips, rides around the city, going for ice cold drinks after being completely soaked in rain, commenting each and every one irrespective of their gender, movies, photo sessions and more.

You’re the best and genuinely feel blessed to have you in my life, dear.

Do remember I’ll always be there for you, even after your Prince charming comes and sweeps you off the floor. (Fingers crossed for that :D).  

Keep smiling and be happy always. Stay the way you are.
And go get marry sooon. Can't wait to meet my jeejz and to be a proud aunt to my bubbly cutey naughty niece/nephew(s). :D :P

Once more Happy Birthday to my Dazzling Rocking Shining Beautiful Sister. :*

Love you Shibukuttttiiiiiiiiiii. J J

Have fun and enjoy your day.

P.S. God Blez.

J