tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post2839157936786381445..comments2023-07-11T07:54:34.702+03:00Comments on Scribblings: Be Present ... This Moment. Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08787858130049311614noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-61158442150496616782017-09-07T14:32:30.337+03:002017-09-07T14:32:30.337+03:00Indeed! Weddings are tricky days, especially for t...Indeed! Weddings are tricky days, especially for the families involved. For the bride even more so. Everybody is at our disposal and we literally have nothing to worry about except "worrying about everything". Kind of an irony there.<br />On my wedding day too, I was stuck with everything being perfect that after the first 2 hours, I became numb to my own feelings and the day went by in a blink. The only memories I have are of the time when I was worrying! Imagine that!!Mansi Laus Deohttp://anoshoflife.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-6037859131617051512017-09-04T10:26:25.742+03:002017-09-04T10:26:25.742+03:00On my marriage day.. my close friend told me you w...On my marriage day.. my close friend told me you wont realise what happened and you would be married..thats exactly what I felt. So many things running around that you dont know what to focus on. You are anxious. PhewManishahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13811946089881661495noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-69364863114562357452017-09-02T17:25:59.987+03:002017-09-02T17:25:59.987+03:00Agree wholeheartedly!! Had similar emotions during...Agree wholeheartedly!! Had similar emotions during my own wedding and even now when I look back :)Samarpita Sharmahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14838347282093738170noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-10948942869137536812017-09-02T15:10:27.823+03:002017-09-02T15:10:27.823+03:00Lovely post Sheethal ! Honest to the core. Moments...Lovely post Sheethal ! Honest to the core. Moments of reflection and introspection when we discover the beauty of mindfulness, albeit a bit late in the day. But you know, brides are a bundle of nerves and can't really blame you for being one :)<br /><br />And yes,next time you meet that priest, tell him Gandhari had 100 sons and they stopped prescribing that ever since Mahabharata got over :)<br />Geehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10115781717096712010noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-23379340561603766512017-09-02T14:52:56.917+03:002017-09-02T14:52:56.917+03:00I totally get it. I had the same feeling . The ga...I totally get it. I had the same feeling . The garland is too heavy , can I take it off, and why is this not like that. But I started enjoying only once the pandit started saying the mantras, he cracked jokes and made us laugh. And there is this one pic where both of us are laughing . We forgot everything and everyone else. Thefoodietrailshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08155881113388795074noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-18987398693112799372017-09-02T13:39:29.353+03:002017-09-02T13:39:29.353+03:00Very right, if u r not at ease or not happy then a...Very right, if u r not at ease or not happy then all else is just a waste Monika Davessarhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12844046588929461658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-11145203345112902012017-09-02T11:45:03.260+03:002017-09-02T11:45:03.260+03:00Marriages are always so stressful. Every bride wan...Marriages are always so stressful. Every bride wants a perfect wedding and sometimes reaching for perfection makes us lose sight of the happiness. Well writtenArjun Guptahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06749723416138499921noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-11353497663273455832017-09-02T11:31:06.637+03:002017-09-02T11:31:06.637+03:00Hey all weddings go by in a fugue state. But I do ...Hey all weddings go by in a fugue state. But I do think you are right in being there at the moment and enjoying it. Even if you were busy doing things at your wedding and betrothal, I'm sure you were immersed in the moment of doing things, therefore, in your own way, you enjoyed it. Does that make sense? Penelope Potty Snooperhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13506050791510159530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-28609926252470055952017-09-02T10:05:52.314+03:002017-09-02T10:05:52.314+03:00So true i wish they dont create such a hoopla abou...So true i wish they dont create such a hoopla about marriage as they do in indiaPriyankahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13906436982626632344noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-5028077528480915062017-08-17T17:32:26.957+03:002017-08-17T17:32:26.957+03:00You know, I had a similar experience during my wed...You know, I had a similar experience during my wedding...so I could totally relate to your feelings. I can look back at it today and think of me as doing anything but "enjoying the moment" that day! Today, though, life has taught me to be much more tuned in to things that matter most. Loved this honest post!Eshahttps://blogsbyesha.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-83915982806656294522017-08-17T15:26:15.422+03:002017-08-17T15:26:15.422+03:00Oh! Yeah, marriages can be stressful. I was kind o...Oh! Yeah, marriages can be stressful. I was kind of nostalgic reading about this. Thankfully I have an army of family who are super excited when it comes to arrangements, so that part was not on me.Neha Tambehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14984829995883864530noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-79760632645825722382017-08-17T07:33:16.299+03:002017-08-17T07:33:16.299+03:00That last sentence says it all. Be present and enj...That last sentence says it all. Be present and enjoy now. :)Vinithahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13443178374019579137noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-23331977465438620962017-08-16T16:07:23.377+03:002017-08-16T16:07:23.377+03:00A beautiful post. The pictures that we rummage thr...A beautiful post. The pictures that we rummage through brings alive the best moments in life. I think it's normal to freak out with all the preparations but happiness rides above everything.Vishal Bheeroohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18229153100959064360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-17754881031275411872017-08-16T14:13:32.524+03:002017-08-16T14:13:32.524+03:00This is just so true. Some of our happiest moments...This is just so true. Some of our happiest moments are lost in stress. Weddings in particular are so stressful for the bride and the groom and their entire families.Obsessivemomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06659233519392456624noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-90300138866097651092017-08-16T11:18:08.371+03:002017-08-16T11:18:08.371+03:00I don't blame you. Weddings are never stress ...I don't blame you. Weddings are never stress free. Frankly I have never seen a bride who is without any worry on her wedding day. But I agree, we need to enjoy the moment rather than worry over small details. Rajlakshmihttp://www.pixelatedtales.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-82068764780770908122017-08-15T22:57:59.170+03:002017-08-15T22:57:59.170+03:00Details keep us so busy that we forget the moment....Details keep us so busy that we forget the moment. Lovely quotes you have shared. At least you acknowledge it. Do share your wedding pics, I am sure you looked resplendent!Indywriteshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12816033368007283306noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-79606246613982199672017-08-15T21:07:03.153+03:002017-08-15T21:07:03.153+03:00Yes, happiness is an inside job, which we tend to ...Yes, happiness is an inside job, which we tend to forget always. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08787858130049311614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-52762965409602336012017-08-15T21:06:29.612+03:002017-08-15T21:06:29.612+03:00So true. So true. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08787858130049311614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-62511749623350084782017-08-15T21:06:17.253+03:002017-08-15T21:06:17.253+03:00We always tend to forget to live in the moment. We always tend to forget to live in the moment. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08787858130049311614noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-26028596059722091662017-08-15T17:45:31.522+03:002017-08-15T17:45:31.522+03:00Haa haa haa we all had a tiresome day during our m...Haa haa haa we all had a tiresome day during our marriage .It's truly a circus .Happiness is an inside job I feel .The stress of it all can suffocate it.Amritahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04189258001273205529noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-51103530328510652892017-08-15T16:24:42.673+03:002017-08-15T16:24:42.673+03:00Sometimes we miss the important moments, while wor...Sometimes we miss the important moments, while worry about the unimportant details! Corinne Rodrigueshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11142098428026084994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5175359865999059996.post-34793104534206555762017-08-15T15:55:06.033+03:002017-08-15T15:55:06.033+03:00True. I know that I worry about a lot of things th...True. I know that I worry about a lot of things that could go wrong, even when something is going right right at that moment. This becomes a nice reminder to be in the moment, and create that memory for the future :-) Vinay Leo R.https://www.blogger.com/profile/13132856855570330824noreply@blogger.com